Bing “successful wedding” and youâ€™ll get a hodgepodge of bad, semi-scientific advice according to studies and wishful thinking: offer your spouse space, donâ€™t provide them with a lot of area, consume together, donâ€™t eat together. Itâ€™s endless. You just need more human, down-to-earth advice when it comes to love, sometimes. A single guy hoping to find the secret to a successful relationship, quit his job and set out across America to record the 100 greatest love stories in the country in November 2012, Nate Bagley. The end result could be the Loveumentary, a written book and website that chronicles their activities in dissecting the secrets of long-term love. On Thursday, Bagley took to Reddit to provide an AMA in the wisdom heâ€™s built-up over the last couple of years from talking with couples which have been together between 7 to 70 years.